My Best Friend: A Crazy Horse Named Dakota

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A Greater Understanding Of "Crazy" D

Dakota came into my life, shortly after my parents' divorce. This unfortunate circumstance led me to finally full fill my childhood dream of becoming a Western rider. Growing up, I always wanted to be a cowgirl, but looking back, I never thought being a rodeo junkie meant re-training an abused horse holding a carrot and little plastic box, when originally I pictured spurs and ropes.

My father bought Dakota for me from a local Reining farm, after taking a few lessons from Bob, in the spring of '05. Before me, Dakota had been through two owners, and a handful of different trainers.

At about three years old, Dakota was sold by the original owner to Rebecca. After Dakota bucked her off, leaving her with a very serious back injury, Rebecca moved on to a different horse. A few weeks later Bob then insured my family that Dakota was the right horse for me. Unaware of the previous accident, I fell in love with the sorrel and white Appaloosa's temper and attitude, long before any complications arose.

My first year with Dakota was filled with anxiety, helplessness, and neglect for both my horse and I. Not only did I feel uncomfterable jerking hard on his bridle while backing him into walls, or jabbing my spurs deep into his flesh only to hear him hover over the ground in confusion, but I saw no progress in his actions. My trainers were pollite to me, but provided no structure, guidance, or criticism, which left me pretty lost most of the time. In addition I did not like how they never asked, but told the animal what to do. I am convinced that this was all supressing Dakota's natural playfulness and curiosity.

After owning D'Kota for a year, I noticed minimal progress in his training and still had no idea what on earth I was doing on saddle. I then decided to leave that barn and board at a closer, more humane facility. I found a place in Poolesville, where horses were turned out every day, got to eat hay and grass, and most of all, I found a place where people loved their horses and treated them with respect. Dakota had never been socialized to share with other horses, nor had he ever been in a pasture at the previous barn. The first few weeks were spent getting Dakota used to his stall, acquainted to his turn-out mates, and accustomed to all the people, willing to pet and praise him.



Things were going well, and I even got to park my trailer, which I received as a high school graduation gift from my father, at the farm. This enabled me to take Dakota on an outing to my father's in the blue ridge the summer of '06. The farm was more then what I dreamed of with rolling hills and hundreds of acres of field, ponds, and woods. Not to mention that all the people were nice, welcoming, and more than helpful.

Things went well, until a late fall day in '06 when I was riding Dakota on a trail with a friend, and he spooked at a deer jumping from a bush. A few weeks later he bucked my sister off, who was riding him with me (although he previously tolerated my boyfriend and I riding him together). Then in the winter, he spooked in the indoor arena and threw me off - that was the last time I got on Dakota. With fear I asked Rebecca for her oppinion on his temperament. She then spent countless hours telling me that he was not the right horse for a beginner rider and advised me to sell him. She was very supportive and sent me countless articles on how to buy and chose a horse, yet I was hesitant to consider selling.

After a while a highly experienced horse trainer was recommended to me to help me learn how to ride and train Dakota; he was happy to come check me and Dakota out at my barn. Sadly, after two hours of pushing, hitting, and whipping, the trainer explained that my horse was not suited for me. It still kills me to look back and see how he kept trying to lunge Dakota by whipping him. Most of all I blame myself for letting him treat my horse this way, but at the time I felt like this was my last resort. The trainer offered to help me if I purchased a more suitable horse, but suggested I send Dakota to the butcher to be processed as dog food, because he is "crazy". .

I gave Dakota a few weeks to recover from this horrible encounter and decided to do a little homework on humane horse handling. Although other trainers were recommended to me, I refused to acknowledge any one. I then attended a dog training seminar held by animal trainer Kathy Sdao, and met people who not only clicker trained dogs, but exotic animals too! I spoke to a bunch of people who shared the same passion of humane animal education as I did! I not only went home with a few more, and completely supportive freinds, but I found the strength to attempt, what people in the horse world barely have - clicker training.

I searched the web and Karen Pryors website to receive as much infromation on clicker training horses as possible. I also stumbled upon Alex Kurland's website, which was dedicated to training horses using clickers. I was amazed at the information I was reading from Alex, a positive horse trainer, and read that even mustangs can be trained using clicker training techniques. Well DUH! If I can get a Doberman to play instead of aggress, and teach a 6 year old stray basic obedience, then why on earth would I not be able to clicker train a horse?

Well, it took me a while, but I am now spending my summer playing with Dakota and filming my training sessions and inteactions with him. I want to be able to view, forward, and rewind his progress and document my experiences. I am by no means a horse trainer, but using what I know from dog training and applying it my horse.

Dakota now is terrified of whips, does not lunge well, and has not been saddled in nearly 6 months. I realize that I should have spent more time with him in the past, but am now glad I can form a relationship, not dictatorship with my horse. It will be a lot of work, but I now realize that is was not crazyness or evil that caused the incidents to happen, but poor desensitization and miscommunication. Also, a friend mentioned that barn mice wwere scurrying where Dakota had spooked in the arena. Who knows if that triggered his last set back.


"Dakota" translated from Siouan (a Native American language) means "friend" or "allie" .

AbOuT D'KoTa

Registered Name: FM SOUTHERN STYLE

Call Name: Dakota, Dee, Kotie

Previous Name: Zack

Color: White / Sorrel

Birthday: June 13, 2001

Mother: KH SOUTHERN MARILYN

Father: FM DUN UP IN STYLE







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